Hi Heather! I know this thread is from 2015, so you're long since married — but for anyone else who lands here looking for a custom long veil, I wanted to share a few options and tips, since this is a question that comes up a lot and the answer isn't always obvious.
Where to look for a custom veil:
Local bridal salons with in-house alterations. Many salons that sell veils also offer custom work, or can refer you to a seamstress they trust. This is often the easiest route because you can see and feel the tulle in person, which matters a lot — not all tulle is created equal.
Etsy. There are a number of sellers who specialize in custom veils at very reasonable prices. You send your measurements (length, width, comb style, edge finish), and they make it to order. Search terms like "custom cathedral veil" or "custom long veil" will get you there. Just read reviews carefully and check turnaround times.
Independent seamstresses and milliners. If you want something truly bespoke — hand-beaded edges, lace appliqué, a specific drop length — a local seamstress who does bridal work is often the best value. Ask your bridal salon or a local fabric store for referrals.
Custom veil specialists. There are a handful of businesses that do nothing but veils, and they'll work with you on length, fullness, edge style, and embellishment.
A few things worth deciding before you order:
Length. Cathedral (around 108") is the classic "long" statement veil, but royal length (around 144") is even longer. If you're going custom, measure against your dress train so the veil and train don't fight each other.
Width and fullness. A single-layer veil drapes differently than a two- or three-layer one. If you want that full, dramatic look, ask about the width of the tulle.
Edge finish. Raw cut, ribbon edge, pencil edge, beaded, or lace appliqué — this is often what separates a budget veil from a luxe one.
Comb vs. clip. Combs are traditional; clips can be easier if you're worried about it slipping or want to remove it after the ceremony.
Tulle quality. This is the detail people forget. Cheaper tulle can look stiff or shiny in photos; softer tulle (often described as "English net" or "bridal illusion") photographs much better.
One practical tip: If you're ordering custom, order early and ask for a swatch or a photo of the tulle before it's cut. And if you're having it shipped, leave buffer time for alterations in case the length or comb placement needs adjusting.
If you're still around, Heather, I'd love to know what you ended up doing — and if anyone else is currently looking, feel free to share what's worked for you!